Quotes Of The Moment (3.31)

Happy Transgender Day Of Visibility! 🏳️‍⚧️ ❤️Proud to be an ally.

From heinous anti-Trans laws going through legislation in this so-called “Land of the Free” to transphobia still shamefully on the rise, now more than ever (sorry for the cliche) the Trans community needs our support and appreciation!

For more on TDoV, GLAAD’s got you covered: https://www.glaad.org/tdov

And…

It may be the end of Women’s History Month, but no matter what the month or day, always remember the message on Xtina’s shirt. (Twenty years after seeing that in an old issue of US Weekly and I still want her shirt!)

I Adore: These Scents!

In honor of National Fragrance Day today, here’s a list of my all-time favorite scents!

Chanel – Coco Mademoiselle

This along with my last mention on the list is vying for my Best Ever Fragrance title. It lasts the whole day on me and then some. A few sprays on my clothes and I’ll still smell it the day after without any refresher. I can’t get enough of its bold floral notes that gives me vibes of the woman who has it all (money, looks, lifestyle, etc.), but somehow I resist in spraying it on every single day. (Although some of that is necessary as my day job recommends us to not wear heavy perfume.)

Chloe (Original)

I feel like Chloe is Mademoiselle’s younger, lighter floral sister that caters to those who want to channel their inner Cher Horowitz. I turn to this more during the warmer months, and it will be a total experience if I’m wearing it and some creep tries to flirt with me, then I shove him the fuck out and I go “as if!”

Tom Ford – Black Orchid

MY scent for when Autumn has arrived (officially or unofficially) or when I feel like being a vamp or rebel girl. Also goes great when I wear my faux leather jackets.

Estee Lauder – Pleasures

Along with Elizabeth Arden’s Sunflowers and Calvin Klein’s CK-One, Pleasures transports me back to a more almost-carefree time that was the mid 90s. (I say “almost-carefree” because I was on the verge of teenhood then, and my pre-teens years were no blissful walk in a sunny park either.) The gorgeous Liz Hurley (then the face of Estee Lauder, above) in the ads, peak Simpsons on the tube, and there was no such thing as cell phone addiction. *sighs* (Surely not with the bricks that were mobile phones then!)

Gucci – Envy Me

If there’s a perfume that captures the mid to late 2000s for me, it’s Envy Me. I still have the bottle from when it was last sold eons ago, and I still got some left, but that remaining half-ounce is precious commodity. Even a whiff of it takes me back to some fun club-hopping nights, living it up like I was a 2000s-era wild-child starlet a la Lindsay and Britney. Shame that it got discontinued, and while some suggested that Versace’s Bright Crystal is its modern replacement, the vibes (and scent) just aren’t the same.

Dior – J’Adore (vintage editions)

The current version of J’Adore was my jam until I bought an old bottle of it from Mercari on a whim last year. The perfume was from 2003 IIRC, and its smell is far different than its current version. Its floral notes are sweeter, less alcohol-y, and, yes, longer-lasting. Impressive considering that it’s been bottled for now 20 years and it still hits pleasantly. Comparing the old and new versions was where I learned first-hand about perfume reformulation. Why Dior had to change J’Adore’s formula over the years is a head-scratcher to say the least. (That’s not the only dubious move Dior has made, as evident by their, ahem, current face of Sauvage, but that’s another story.) I’ve since bought two more vintage bottles of J’Adore (thanks to the eBay for selling them–albeit in used but very good condition–at very reasonable prices), one of which supposedly came from its debut year in 1999. The smell defines wow. Like with my music, movies, and fashion, in J’Adore’s case, old school is far better than the new school.

These Cool Poems – “IWD Edition”

Happy (almost belated) International Women’s Day! I may be late in this (Wednesdays are usually my Mondays in terms of work week, and let’s just say I had a helluva busy “Monday”), but celebrating strong, fearless, and creative women is not limited to one day in my book. In honor of this special day, two poems from two of my idols!

and…

Poems courtesy of PoetryFoundation.org 
ETA: since copying and pasting the poems above word-by-word from the linked site didn’t display properly for me, I chose to use images of the poems instead.

Born To Be Bad

bad girl candle & book

The amazing Mae West once said “good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere.” Guess I’m going everywhere this time around with the new candle I have lit and the book I’ll be reading to go with it. The book was a thrift store find; a book with “Bad Girls” in the title that actually features actual bad women (of the Wild West, in this case) is an automatic buy for me. (I also got it to counter all the hackneyed bad boy crap I’ve been seeing from entertainment lately.) While the author makes it known that their stories are based on both fact and folklore, it’s still all intriguing. I just started the book, and I gotta say that Ma Stefflebeck is one bad mutha.

As for the candle, I’m glad it packs a very good throw because I’m enjoying its blend of floral/musky notes. Like a true bad girl, it’s desire and danger in one inviting package. Thanks to a Black Friday sale last year, that candle is one of many candles I own from Bad Ass Candles, a woman-owned company from Texas. If you like your candles paraffin-free, clean-burning, and smelling good in your hood and also want to support a small, woman-owned business for this Women’s History Month and beyond, Bad Ass Candles is where it’s at!